Creating Safe Spaces

For four decades, Janell has been creating and curating safe spaces for people to gather, grow, and graciously experience life-changing truths. Her messages resound in many settings: conferences, staff/leadership training, webinars, organizations, churches, mental health professionals, and health/wellness centers.

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Faith & Mental Health

In her award-winning book, “Stronger Every Day: 9 Tools for an Emotionally Healthy You,” Janell offers life-changing mental, emotional, and spiritual tools. Areas of expertise include:

  • Secure Attachment (Identity Formation)
  • Trauma and Memory Reconsolidation
  • Trauma-informed Leadership
  • Marriage & Family Systems
  • Motherhood & Parenting
  • Trauma-informed Conflict Resolution and Non-Violent Family Communication
  • Spiritual Growth & Formation
  • Emotionally & Spiritually Healthy Relationships
  • Emotional Health in Teen Girls

Making Sure You Feel Seen and Heard

Caleb Madison, Crossword Editor in The Atlantic, writes, “I know what it means when someone says they feel heard—they feel like someone has really listened to them, as if their words have been paid attention to. I know what it means when someone says they feel touched—they feel like someone has made a connection with them on an emotional level, as if physical contact were happening in the soul.” Janell connects with audiences and communities on an emotional level, making sure each person feels seen and heard.

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Emotional & Spiritual Wellness

We continue to live in unprecedented times. Let’s accept this seemingly unwanted invitation to strategically develop practices and rhythms that enable us to live meaningful lives. Areas of expertise include:

  • Mental Stamina, Clarity, & Toughness
  • Resilience
  • Healthy self-care, work/life balance
  • Rest and Renewal
  • Meditation, Mindfulness, & Movement
  • Understanding Personal Value, Worth, and Dignity

Here Janell is pictured with Marleisa Montgomery, Executive Director of The Genieve Shelter, Suffolk, a domestic violence shelter dedicated to empowering women.

Leadership & Team Building

After a decade of specialized work in marriage and family systems, Janell has identified core qualities and capabilities that lead to establishing healthy leaders and teams. Areas of expertise include:

  • Implementing non-violent communication skills
  • Understanding the role attachment theory plays in developing strong, resilient relationships
  • Creating trauma-informed leaders, staff, and communities
  • Developing empathic environments where people feel seen, heard, and known.
  • Implementing trauma-informed communication skills to help families overcome obstacles and challenges.

Janell thrives on teaching and leading on a global scale. Here she is on Lake Naivasha, Kenya, teaching a remarkable group of Kenyan Mommas at an international retreat.

Invitation to Holy Week

*Visiting the Archives this Holy Week, as I really needed to hear these messages again. I pray they bless you, too. Every time you see an * you'll know I'm updating with thoughts I'm experiencing here in Holy Week 2021. This is what I love about life with God: He...

Finding the Good in Good Friday

Visiting the Blog Archives today. We are not built for everyone's bad news, or are we? Day after day, bad news streams into our lives. Just this week: A 22,000 lb. bomb, known as "The Mother of all Bombs (MOAB)," was dropped in the Achin district of Nangarhar province...

One Woman’s Act of Mercy

Maundy Thursday is a day to reflect. Today, Author Janell Rardon, shares how one woman can change history’s narrative.

Finding the Good in Good Friday

We are not built for everyone's bad news, or are we? Day after day, bad news streams into our lives. Just this week: A 22,000 lb. bomb, known as "The Mother of all Bombs (MOAB)," was dropped in the Achin district of Nangarhar...

What brings you peace of mind?

You have peace," the old woman said, "when you make it with yourself.” ― Mitch Albom, The Five People You Meet in Heaven When Peace of Mind Feels Far Away When I woke up Tuesday morning, I never expected that I would end up lacerating my head on a metal awning + being...

One Sure-fire Way to Add PEACE to your DAY!

Join Author and Board Certified Life Coach, Janell Rardon, as she adds some peace and calm into the hustle and bustle of the holidays.

The Pain of Unanswered Prayers

Unrelenting disappointment leaves you heartsick,     but a sudden good break can turn life around." -Proverbs 13:12 (MSG) Hope deferred makes the heart sick,     but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life." -Proverbs 13:12 (NIV) The Pain of Unanswered Prayers Tori sat...

What do Worry and Fog Have in Common?

What do worry and fog have in common? Worry is a cycle of inefficient thoughts whirling around a center of fear. -Corrie Ten Boom I'm asking a simple question today, "What do worry and fog have in common?" [Tweet "When faith breaks through the fog of your fears."] I...

Dare to Believe

Today, I both ask and challenge myself and you: Do we dare to believe like Mary believed? Unabashedly?
I’m leaning in and answering, “Yes!” How about you? Mary shows us that Jesus can be trusted. He is faithful and true and oh so real. If you need to, lean on me. We are on this holy journey together. Let us wait and watch and wonder…we are Easter people and Hallelujah is our song.

Maundy Thursday 2016

Maundy Thursday is a day to reflect. Today, Author Janell Rardon, shares how one woman can change history’s narrative.

How a People Pleaser Became a Family Pleaser

From the archives, August 19, 2015 Update, August 12, 2018 Many of us found that we had several characteristics in common as a result of being brought up in an alcoholic or dysfunctional household. We had come to feel isolated and uneasy with other people, especially...

One Woman’s Courage

While the Bible does not tell us who the wife of Pilate the governor was, the Apocryphal book, The Gospel of Nicodemus, identifies her as Claudia Procula, and a granddaughter of the Emperor Augustus. The book also says that she was a proselyte to Judaism, being among...

When Mom Needs a Break From the Mundane

Meet the Remarkable Lea Turner, Mom, Writer, Blogger I met Lea years ago. Her quiet demeanor and warm, wise eyes indicative of remarkability. I remember Lea sharing her dreams of serving God through her gift of writing. She and her family moved to Alabama and we lost...

Celebrating the Women in My Life

Today, International Women’s Day, Author Janell Rardon stands on the shoulders of the “giants of women” who have shaped her. She celebrates the women in her life. What women have influenced your life?

Saying goodbye to college-bound kids

Letting go is going to be different than you expected and far more emotionally charged. After all, we've been so involved in our kids' lives and have been determined to give them the best. And frankly, this is a huge economic investment. So recognize your feelings and...

Raising World Changers

Author and MOM, Janell Rardon, overheard a beautiful little conversation that prodded her to encourage readers to raise world changers.

One Woman’s Courage

I've heard this story so many times, yet never focused on Pilate's wife and the incredible dream she was given by God. This dream became a critical part of the Holy Week narrative. [Tweet "One woman's dream changed everything."] Only Matthew records it. Only one verse...

The Practice of Discretion

(For even more on this short study on practicing discretion, subscribe to my E-Newsletter.) The Practice of Discretion Isn't discretion a little outdated, you might ask? One would think. In a social network driven society, where you can say whatever you please,...

Plus Size Woman?

The Quaker teacher, Douglas Steere, was fond of saying that “the ancient human question, ‘Who am I?’ leads inevitably to the equally important question, ‘Whose am I?’ for there is no self hood outside of relationship.” "When a woman becomes her own best friend life is...

Leaving a Legacy.

Leaving a Legacy. Dove has done it again. I give DOVE a standing O for the astounding messages they are choosing to send out to mothers and daughters everywhere. Just today they announced their new campaign, "Legacy." I about fell over when I saw it because I have...

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